im 15 and my boyfriends 34?

Question

My boyfriends 34, and im 15. We've been been dating for about 6 months. At first i thought it was wrong, but i realize i love him alot. Does age really matter

Answer 1

Yes, if I was your parent I would slap his **** in jail so fast his head would spin, and then your **** would go to a boot camp or boarding school for girls somewhere, and trust me you'd always remember that OLD MEN don't have ANYTHING in comon with LITTLE GIRLS!!! if they say they do hon, that just means they are pathetic waists of space and can't get someone on a mental level higher than yours.....he's sad, and gross, and your being taken advantage of stupid!!

Answer 2

This is wrong on so many levels...

It is illegal for a reason -- at 15 years old you cannot consent to the kinds of things this "boyfriend" will present to you because you just have not had the life experience and growth necessary to make adult decisions with other adults.

Also, your boyfriend either cannot handle being with a woman his age or there is something wrong with him that mature women will not tolerate but a child will tolerate or not even be aware of because the are so excited by the thought that a "man wants me"

Imagine if an 8 year old boy were in love with you.. he might really feel like he was in love with you, but wldn;t you think he was just being silly and couldn't really know what he was talking about / doing -- ANY person at that age (just like at 15) just is not ready. Think of how much you have grown between grade school and high school, and an 8 year old would only be 7 years younger -- you are almost 20 YEARS younger....

20 years -- please at least be smart enough as a 15-year old and realize that as flattering and cool as this may make you look / feel you are really being used and not being allowed to grow as a normal teen girl into a mature woman without the interference of a weak, sick adult man who wants to use your body and soul

Answer 3

Everyone keeps saying that this is illegal but I'm sure you both know this. The question is what are you getting out of this relationship? The bottom line is that no matter how mature you are, you're still 15 and when you open your mouth it shows. That's not a bad thing it's just that deep down inside, he'll always be dreading what your going to say next. He'll never be able to take you out with his friends because your life experiences are at polar opposites and neither him nor his friends will be able to relate. Odds are that people will say "right , right..." alot. Eventually the thrill will be gone and your gonna be bored out of your mind. You also will have missed the chance to be with someone close to your age and doing all the fun silly stuff you can ONLY do at 15. As for him he is trying to recapture his teenage years through you because you make him feel alive and rejuvenated. all he's doing is sucking your youth away. when it's over you'll feel drained and aged and he'll move on to a 20 year old. I don't doubt that you love him. unfortunately your too young to realize that love does not resolve all the issues. Please have fun and stay away from the emotional vampires of the world. If he really loved you he would want you to enjoy you teenage years and not try to steal them for himself. He already had his and now he wants seconds. Sounds selfish and greedy to me.

Answer 4

OMG! No sweetheart ur head is in the wrong place every thing is wrong wit that! why is he even interested in someone ur age? think about that what can he give u that a daddy can't cuz thats about what he is! U should not even be interested in a man that would persue someone ur age! Live and enjoy life u don't need a old ass man for a boyfriend and i'm gonna help u think about this just sit back and think if ur 15 yr. old daughter was dating a 35 yr. old how would u feel? If u have to thnk about the age between u and ya mate chances are he is too old esp. wen ur under 21

Answer 5

Hey, I'm all for the whole older-guy-younger-girl thing but even I have to say there seems to be too much of an age gap here. And there may be some legal issues depending on what state you are in. Isn't this guy about the same age as your dad? I think the first thought you had, thinking it was wrong, might be the one to go with here. And to your boyfriend, sorry dude for being such a CB.

Answer 6

Age doesn't matter as long as the love is true. I'm 34 and my girlfriend is 46. Size, as in size of penis, matters kind of, so if he has a big one, and you really do love him, go for it. But also when you're 50 he'll be 75. You probaly won't be able to be sexualy active with him, so make the years that you are count! Buy this I mean ride him hard and all night long, and make sure that he hits the spot in the candy shop very often.

Answer 7

Have you been having sex with him? That may be why you feel that you love him. Our body chemistry often works like that. A mentally healthy 34 y/o man does not "date" a 15 y/o girl! This man is emotionally immature and afraid of woman his own age. What he is doing is illegal and it's illegal for a reason!
You should dump this guy immediately! It may be hard for you, but actually, the best thing to do is tell your parents and report this guy to the police so that he doesn't do this with another young girl. God bless you.

Answer 8

Honey, not only does age matter when you are a minor, but he is a child molestor and belongs in jail!! Don't think for a moment that he loves you in the way you think, or that he would be wiht you if you were 30, he wouldn't!

You very well may "love" him, but he is taking advantage of you and committing a felony in the process. If you really "love" him, stay away from him until you are 18 at least ... then if you still think thats what you want ... well... you are an adult then at least, and ready to take responsibility for your own actions.

Answer 9

Yes, the age matters. You are 15, he is 34: you have different styles of life, of thinking about life, you also have a family. Do they know about your relationship? (I suppose they don't). If you think it really worth, go for it. If these differences do not hurt you both and you really love each other, it is OK...but people will talk a lot, they will try to separate you...try first to consolidate your relationship before you make it public...k? people can influence you in a bad way, they can make you separate from him...

Answer 10

He should be locked up. He's breaking the law. You should wise up... he's a sick puppy and he's using you. If age didn't matter, there wouldn't be laws to protect under age children (yes honey, you are still a child) from triffling, dirty ol men like this 34 yr old. When he finds a another fresh piece, he'll kick you to the curb like yesterdays trash! Love means responsibility

Answer 11

Age is not really matter. . . but in your case, that's moral problem? how can a 35 man go for a 15 years old girl? That sound suck! You can always find someone around your age. Let me do the math, he's 15 years older than you? Oh NO, it's 20 YEARS OLDER THAN YOU !