i've been bf/gf with my boyrfriend for 3 months almost and we haven't kissed yet. we've even TALKED about kissing but it never ends up hapeening. should i kiss him in the movie theater on our next date? should i start with a little kiss then make out later or go straight to making out? help! i've only done little kisses b4 and that was a long time ago! and don't give me some crap about "oh just have sex with him" because i don't want to hear it i'm thirteen.
2006-06-29 18:12:59 · 15 answers · asked by sofiaharriett 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-29 18:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Start with one on the cheek. Don't seem ultra-eager. A little eager is fine but you can't come off as too clingy. Just kiss him on the cheek, if he gets REALLY quiet and looks into your eyes, wait for him to kiss you on the lips. The best way to ensure that is just to stare right back into his. Get that connection and it's possible his lack of though will over-ride his nervousness. Don't plan on making out. If it happens, it'll happen and you'll know exactly what to do.
If he doesn't get really quiet or give any sort of ramp to a kiss with the lips then say his name and when he asks what just star into his eyes and start to move in, don't move too slowly or too fast. Move in so that he can see it and when you collide it's not awkward.
2006-06-30 01:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make it mechanical. It should just come naturally. However next time you two are alone and close and looking at each other, move closer and gently kiss him on the lips. If he kisses back, then you can see how it feels and if you want to make out or not. More importantly, have fun!
2006-06-30 01:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best kiss I ever got in my life (and I'm 37) was from a guy who at the end of the date ASKED me if he could kiss me (I said yes of course!). So maybe that's what you should do. The way he kisses you back will let you know if you can take it further. If he says no (highly unlikely), then...you'll know it's best to move on.
2006-06-30 01:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow when you say goodbye give him a little kiss on the cheek. next date on the lips and then do that at school. then after about 5 days it will just happen. the guy usually makes the first move with the tongue but do not move your tongue cuz then it is not romantic
2006-06-30 01:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by anchan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 14. i first kissed my gf when she was talking to me about a problem with her dad. she was crying and i told her everything was ok. she looked down, then looked back up and kissed me very slowly. that was the best. wait for a good moment.
2006-06-30 01:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it is up to you, do it when you feel ready. Just remember your first real kiss should be with someone you care about.
2006-06-30 01:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by Shy Williams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur 13????????
aren't you in middle school!!!!
Sweety, you have your whole life ahead of you... you have all the time in world.
If you curious, trust me on this, i have been there.. curiosity kills the cat!!!-ruined alot of things for me!
Best thing to do is wait!
Learn about herpes(kissing disease) before you go kissing this guy.
2006-06-30 01:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by maya77477 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him if you want, lightly on the cheek.
But, you are youg and hanging out is ok.
2006-06-30 01:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out slow.
Jumping into making out may scare him.
2006-06-30 01:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss him, you obviously want to.
2006-06-30 01:15:27 · answer #11 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋