If a girl don't wait to have sex with a guy till marriage people don't find that wierod, but if a girl waits they think how did she make it? When just a few years ago you didn't hear of such a thing. Plus in God eyes thats the way it should be (to wait). Now it is more normal and exsepted to not wait LADIES take more pride in your self and wait till you find mister right!!!
2006-06-29 17:16:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
lol . . . . I know I am not a lady . . . but you got to be kidding.
It is not strange that people wait until marriage to have sex . . . but it is extremely rare . . . and it is has past it time.
Sex is does not get better if you wait . . . usually it improves with experience. Also people who has never experiement with their sex drive . . . usually have problem with fidelity with their partner because they have a low sex drive . . . and their partner has a higher sex drive.
Why do you have bring religion into . . . with religion protesting a fictional movie . . . killed the belief in god . . . fiction can only destroy fiction. Since the movie was fictional . . . then god is fictional because they are afraid that it would hurt it.
Now Pride . . . If you could maintain you virginity . . . you can either be proud of it . . . or disappointed. It is an accomplishment, especially if you have people vying for your attention. If no one desires you . . . then you would have no problem of maintaining and it is no accomplishment.
As for your Mr. Right . . . yeah right . . . . Listen sweetheart. . . we are not perfect . . . we make mistakes . . . we have faults. And let me tell you something Princess . . . you are not perfect either . . . and right now . . . you are basically annoying right now.
Look . . . sex is a part life . . . whether it is actual sex or sexual attraction. People decide who they want to get know by attractions . . . (not necessarily but looks, but attraction). Without attraction, guys would not care about a girl and visa-versa.
But let me tell you something about men . . . we love sex. And let me promise you . . . if you like him and you are not giving it to him . . . believe me . . . he will get it from somewhere else.
2006-07-12 08:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think it is strange I just think that people need to open their eyes and realize that it is the millennium and people are doing things a lot differently. I know someone who is still a virgin to this day and she is 24, I give her mad props because she is waiting for her Mr. Right, the ring, the marriage basically the whole nine yards. I don't find it odd and I wish more would take a note from her book because your virginity is special and you can't get it back once it is gone.
2006-07-12 23:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not strange to wait. In fact, if you can, then that's what works for you. But its easier said then done to "wait" until your married to have sex. Say you meet someone, you fall in love, its just a natural thing to want to express your love. It doesn't mean that you don't take pride in yourself, it just means that it is ONE way to express your love. Who's to say whether it is right or wrong.
Whats works for one may not work for another, but I wouldn't judge anyone on either decision they make. Not waiting doesn't make you any less of decent person then the one who waits.
2006-07-12 12:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by allyp51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gurl look it aint strange to wait cuz some dudes like their lady to be a virgin, dat way they wont catch nothin
its not strange cuz if u cant fall in luv without havin sex somethin is rong
and u rite God du want u to wait dats y me a dude is dowin so.
im juss tired of seein all of these ladies out there givin up on dudes and im here 2 defend the last four gentlemen in the US
2006-06-30 00:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with u but think of it this way most guys have sex with girls that they wont even marry and later marry someone else who probably is a virgin. As for me i am saving lots of quarters in my safe so that by the time i get married my safe will be full not half empty.
2006-06-30 00:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by ωнєη уσυ ѕмιℓє уσυ мαкє мє ѕмιℓє 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
excuse me, i have pride, and i dont know what year you live in, but its 2006, and "the right one" barely exists. If all woman thought like you, there would be a ton of lonely, agrivated virgins out there wishing they had lived there life while they still could.
2006-07-10 12:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by MISHELL I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i prefer waiting til marriage and i'm very proud of being virgin i'd like to discover it with the love of my life(my husband) i think it's the best gift it's the proof that u respect and love him and if ur virgin u don't have to be ashamed that ur not like the others, ur different for good things but not bad
2006-07-13 03:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by St鰨anie Lalatiana A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you. But what can we do with these young girls who can not control themselves and give up their virginity to an equally uncontrollable and horny boy. That is one of the worries of parents nowadays, aside from drugs.
2006-07-13 14:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by Belen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't find it weird at all.I think it's great that people can Wait until marriage.
2006-07-13 23:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by Angelina T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You choose what you want to do. Don't worry about others opinion. You are one of those girls who makes your husband proud. Choose your man wisely. Best of luck.
2006-07-13 15:45:20 · answer #10 · answered by StraightDrive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋