yah I just posted a question about a boyfriend that wont call me yah know...yah so he is older than me by 3 years...should I have sex with him? he wants to and so do I...sometimes I think I would have his baby..but then there is a race thing...hes black...im white...he lives like an hour away...its hard...I dont know what to do...sooo yah should I..yes or no...?
2006-06-29 17:19:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sex is love , you didnt know that? no , you should read novels and get an education or something. remember this, he needs you more than you need him. in 5 years you will hate yourself for this if you do it. pick up a book and start reading when you feel like making a big life decision. feed your BRAIN. be careful.....
2006-06-29 17:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by benjamin linus 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not know if it is you are your people or his people that give you pause about the difference in race thing. Her Filipina and younger, me African American and older. We acknowledge that fact only because we know WE have to close ranks because of others not anything we have ourselves. So if the reservation is on you or him then you should not be sexing each other up. Also aside form the race thing. He has not shown enough interest or worked hard enough to show he loves you all that much. If you have that kind of fire in the loins get a toy. Or make him prove he deserves it. An hour a way or not. If some one told him to make that trip 2 times a week for 3 months and he would get a 2 million dollar home, I bet he would make the time. So, he can and should put in that kind of effort for you.
2006-06-30 00:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have yall been dating ... has it been more than a year and a half if not then no not bc of race but because he lives far away... he will probably not be there for yall when you have the kid...plus most older guys that are between the ages of 16-23 all they think about is how many gurls they can get especially the ypung ones so they can show you to there friends...are yall in love if no then no! trust me on this i have four older brothers and they are all the same... even though they are married now ,but am a aunt of 14 nefew and nieces and most of them are from different gurls!
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2006-06-29 17:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by goodyis2cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to have sex with a guy (of any race) that will not call you? More than likely he is just wanting to have a little fun with a white chick. Do you have any self confidence at all? If you did, you would automatically think "No", this is wrong, he won't call me. If he got you pregnant, more than likely he would leave you with a baby and you would not have a family if your family does not believe in the inner racial dating. And if he lives one hour away, what do you think he would be doing if he was not with you? You need to think about this big time sweety before you do something you regret.
2006-06-29 17:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by ladia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to work out the situation first before you think
about having sex with this young man. the fact that he wont call
you. and the race thing, it should be a problem but may be. since
you brought it up. sound like you need to really sit down and talk
about this before you make a decision that you may regret. there
plenty of time so dont rush this.
2006-06-29 17:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by jazzsinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm from US, ny to be precise. Figured this out when I talked about each and every of the distinct circumstances ppl get on right here. Responses now and again want to be altered and that i forget that what we are saying right here contained in the U. S. will be misinterpret as insulting. Oh nicely...we are all entitled to mind f*rts. Lol.
2016-10-13 23:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you ever have a problem with the race thing, you should never date interracially. The only people who successfully date interracially don't see other people by their race.
Also, if you have to question about having sex, then don't have sex. It should be natural.
2006-06-29 17:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not have sex with him. He doesn't sound good enough for you. Sex changes everything. Your emotions will increase tremendously for him and the distance will make it that much harder.
2006-06-29 17:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sobelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...no. he won't call you, you've got your whole life ahead of you. you don't need a baby now. you probably need to get rid of this guy. sounds like a big mess if you ask me.
2006-06-29 17:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by aj607 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't! After that the more he won't call you, it's just for sex sake.
2006-06-29 17:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋