Family & Relationships - 13 June 2006

I am recently divorced and I'm hurt, jealous and angry. I have decided not to see my ex-husband at all beacuse it's the only way I feel I have some control. It hurts me too much to see him, but I don't want him to see that, because I don't want his pity. We have a grown up daughter and a 12 year old son, who spends his time equally between both of us. Now I'm wondering if my decision not to see my ex will have any impact on my son. We can always make the arrangements over the phone or via sms, but will my son feel bad about us not seeing each other? I never badmouth my ex to my son but talk about him casually and respectfully. I'm really uncertain about this and would appreciate some honest answers.

2006-06-13 12:15:46 · 20 answers · asked by Lotte T 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So, they think how I am "not cool" and all this stuff, and i said i dont want to talk to them right, but then theyre like, "well send you as many messages as we want" (email). How can I get them to stop?

2006-06-13 12:14:42 · 1 answers · asked by wwarren92 1 in Friends

2006-06-13 12:14:11 · 5 answers · asked by lilytrippy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-13 12:13:58 · 64 answers · asked by ford_lovergirl_69 2 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes you get confused whether is it really necessary to make more money by sacrificing some good moments in the family life and doing hard work. How much money you need to have balanced good life for now and future all along.

2006-06-13 12:13:28 · 4 answers · asked by Mallinath S 1 in Family

2006-06-13 12:13:24 · 8 answers · asked by Confused11111 1 in Friends

they bust a nut and they want to go to bed

2006-06-13 12:13:00 · 7 answers · asked by prettypink_hair 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-13 12:12:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband's ex is impossible. She does everything she can to make life miserable for him. There is a court order for visitation and child support, but she still threatens to go to the court and say he's not doing what he's supposed to if she gets mad for any reason. He pays his child support and takes care of his kids but she is never satisfied. The court system is definately not designed to help the fathers in these situations and she takes full advantage of that. Do we really have to deal with this until the kids are 18? Help! This is the baby's mama from hell. This is why the term 'baby's mama drama' was invented!

2006-06-13 12:11:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I got alot of good responses, now I know, he doesn't want to! THat ring was a part of his plan to get me back, I took someone advise on here and asked him calmly about it, and he said it is just a piece of f****** paper and means nothing, why should we go spend 100.00 in a court to get married, and dont I know that it cost thousands to get a divorce. Well, that did in fact turn into a big fight. HE said that marriages should costs thousands, so that people would actually think about it first. I got really angry and said than you should have never asked me. What did I do wrong and is there a chance in H E L L we will ever tie the knot?

2006-06-13 12:11:21 · 11 answers · asked by Wonderinggirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we tried soap and water, tide stick and shout to go stick...none worked, its in the washer right now...do you have any ideas if it doesnt come out? pleaaassseee help...its my graduation dress and i need it for tonight....

2006-06-13 12:11:03 · 6 answers · asked by teenqueenof13 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me&my ex has broke up for half a year. he has gotten over me but im not sure about myself. also, at the same time i am currently interested in 2 other men. one of whom is a close friend of mine and the other is a flirt. help.

2006-06-13 12:10:49 · 11 answers · asked by hungri_evette 1 in Singles & Dating

right now i am 16.. i have a mom and a step dad.. i never knew my real dad beacuse he left me my mom and my brother when i was two.. about two months ago i founds my half brother.. i was really exited and wanted to get to know him.. i knew my real father owed my mom money because he had never paid child support. i told my mom that i had found my brother and that i wanted my mom to get the money she deserved. now my mom talks about how my real dad would want to have a relationship with me and my brother. i was shocked at first that i really hadent thought about it. i really want to have a relationship with my half sister and half brother . but not my dad. i know people talk about second chances but i feel that what my dad did just leaving us and with out paying child support.. i dont feel like he deserves another chance.. do you ? this is my question do you belive that what my dad did to me , my mom and my little brother that he deserves to have a relationship with me.....?

2006-06-13 12:09:47 · 14 answers · asked by finnyfroc315lax 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-13 12:09:43 · 10 answers · asked by P_B_B 1 in Singles & Dating

just curious as to why some people think that they should be kept alive in prison for the rest of their lives instead of being put to death because its "in-humane"....but i sh!t you not that if one of those peoples' lost a loved one to a murderer they'd be singing a different song....
what are your thoughts...everyone welcome to answer...


and yes i know this has nothing to do with singles and dating but im trying to get a feel for all people...irregardless on the catagory...

2006-06-13 12:08:57 · 47 answers · asked by lastofodyinbreed 4 in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfriend and i just broke up because i found a email that he wrote his ex-girl telling her he miss her and if she was married! i was really hurt and i trusted him! we been together for 2years now and it hurts like hell. Seens then i been over there almost everyday but we are not together. i just found out that i am preg i am so sad what should i do??????????????

2006-06-13 12:08:56 · 21 answers · asked by so sad 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

stick shift or atomatic and say if your a guy or a girl

2006-06-13 12:08:38 · 13 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that the father cannot get visitation through them? Also if the father has a notorized document stating that the mother will not ask for child support, does she even have a case?

2006-06-13 12:08:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he drinks every day, no water ,no soda nothing but beer........

2006-06-13 12:08:17 · 4 answers · asked by Monique G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-13 12:06:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

See I'm a big girl, with a big booty. And I'm dating this guy, very cool guy! And I want to take it to the next level, BUT! I resently found out the size of his penis and it was a big turn off! Now I don't know if I want to sleep with him. What should I do????

2006-06-13 12:06:43 · 28 answers · asked by curvasouslatina 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my kids want to do something for their dad. We are in a tight budget right now. Any ideas of what we can do for him to make him feel special?

2006-06-13 12:06:09 · 6 answers · asked by yo_010180 2 in Family

I met this guy for the first time for lunch. He hugged and kissed me on my cheek. When we said good bye, he hugged me again as though he didn't want to let go of me. I think I'm in love with him; however, I'm not sure how he feels about me yet. As of now, how can I tell if he does like me? Thanks for your advice.

2006-06-13 12:06:00 · 5 answers · asked by valscw 1 in Singles & Dating

My great Aunt Mable told me she saw a whale with a polka-dotted tail down by the bay. But i think Aunt Mable is telling me a fable, cuz her favorite book is Anne of Green Gables. Answer this question if you are able, I'll just sit here at my table and watch my TV which has cable.

2006-06-13 12:03:54 · 13 answers · asked by Hannah 3 in Family

2006-06-13 12:03:53 · 17 answers · asked by Jam 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-13 12:03:21 · 6 answers · asked by myoga4 1 in Singles & Dating

my partner would like 2 preform anal sex with me and i am really afraid of it hurtin!!!! when we hav had a drink and get a bit carried away it might slip a little, but i end up pullin away just thinkin of the pain???? so can anyone answer this and tell me is it really PAINFULL!!!!!!!!!

2006-06-13 12:03:06 · 21 answers · asked by lurganrabbit 2 in Singles & Dating

She is always back talking and has horrible attitude. her school work is not always done and is failing her classes. have taken privlages away and that dosnt work either she then becomes more definte What can I do.
From: Very stressed out father

2006-06-13 12:02:31 · 15 answers · asked by rich r 1 in Family

I am separated from my wife, soon to be divorced.
Can she change my daughter's surname to her new married surname should she get re-married, without my consent ?

2006-06-13 12:01:48 · 21 answers · asked by Mr. Insecurity 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee has an ex-wife that calls yelling and screaming constantly. Everytime we pick up or drop off his two kids there is confrontation. It's embarrassing and frustrating. I just sit there and don't say a word. He usually feeds into her drama and gets upset. Am I wrong to tell him to ignore her and hang up the phone when she is acting like this? I have never been in a situation like this and I know I don't want to live the rest of my life dealing with this DRAMA!!!!

2006-06-13 12:01:06 · 8 answers · asked by wildarts 1 in Marriage & Divorce