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Question

my partner would like 2 preform anal sex with me and i am really afraid of it hurtin!!!! when we hav had a drink and get a bit carried away it might slip a little, but i end up pullin away just thinkin of the pain???? so can anyone answer this and tell me is it really PAINFULL!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

First of all before you try anything you have to be really turned on (So my girlfriends have told me) But start off sticking something small up there for starters. Maybe have your boyfriend put his finger up there as he's going down on you. Use a oil based lubricant, it's more messy but works best. Try putting a b*tt plug up there before hand, that way you'd be in control and it will loosen you up a bit and make it less painful. Also I've heard that poppers relax the ar se muscles but you'll have to check that out for yourself. Lastly tell the horny little bugger to go slow and be gentle. oh, I've notice that some women feel a bit dirty after this and need plenty of cuddles and lovey dovey treatment afterwards. So give him your orders before hand.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

It hurts like hell when you drop an extra large solid log, so I cannot see anal sex being any different. I have had a but plug in me at some time and that felt good but she did use plenty of lube, and it helps if you are able to relax.

Answer 4

OK here goes - get your partner to loosen you up by licking back there (this will also check that he is into this for non selfish reasons too) and then allow him to finger gently till you are ready for him. Repeat licking and fingering with lube then attempt insertion if it hurts stop and carry on with the fun stuff. It only hurts if you are forced - he needs to get you to relax before he can have fun!

Answer 5

It will probably be a little painful at first. You must take it slow and I mean really slow start small with fingers and maybe a small plug so you can get used to it. Try it yourself first use your finger and make sure you have plenty of lubrication. There can never be too much lubrication. But experiment on yourself first. Take it SLOW REALLY SLOW

Answer 6

I'm being serious... it does hurt real bad, at first. You might want to have some lube, or a pillow so you can cover your mouth with. After a couple of thrusts it starts feeling good...and eventually you'll love it. BUT it shouldn't be an everyday thing...only for special occassions.

*You might want to get drunk too...so it won't hurt as much.

Answer 7

WELL YEAH!! But I did have a friend once that liked to have anal sex. You have to relax your muscles, otherwise it will hurt you both, and try lubricant so it goes in easier. They said once you get use to it it;s no biggy. BUT THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES TO HAVING ANAL SEX> The tissues aren't use to something being there other than to eliminate feces. so they will tear and when you get older you may or may not be able to control you being able to poop. GOOD LUCK

Answer 8

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Answer 9

I think you better shout at him and saying to him the word 'no'. Because it could be worse for your future. You might think the pain but he wont think about it so just say the word 'no' or you ask him to marry you first. At least he could take care of you after having sex with you.

Answer 10

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