I found out the size of his penis and I'm not that into him anymore!?

Question

See I'm a big girl, with a big booty. And I'm dating this guy, very cool guy! And I want to take it to the next level, BUT! I resently found out the size of his penis and it was a big turn off! Now I don't know if I want to sleep with him. What should I do????

Ok for you girls out there that think I'm shallow. His not a good kisser and and for me size does matter let's stop acting like it's not a big deal! His size is 3 1'2 inch! Would you like that????

Hey who ever said I was ugly, I just said I was a big girl with curve. I never said I was fat and ugly guys. Let's be nice huh!!

Answer 1

I’ll try to answer that as a guy with a short penis based on honest conversations that I‘ve had with girls. Size does matter so don’t feel bad. Some women say that it doesn’t matter but what that really means is that it doesn’t matter to them, obviously it does to you. Nothing wrong with that as long as you don’t play with his feelings. It appears to me that you don’t want to do that. Which is cool!

You need to see it from a different angle, most men would prefer a tight vagina over a loose one. That’s no secret, tighter feels better. Vaginas come in all sizes just like penises. Some can be short but wide, short and narrow, long and narrow, and on and on. You may in fact have a large vagina, I mean nothing bad by that, really! I hope you know what I mean. You may in fact need a larger penis to satisfy you.

It may have nothing to do with your size or looks, it may be that you realized that the longer the penis, the more positions that you both can enjoy. I’ll give you an example, I once went to a park in Hollywood and I ran into a couple who were having sex in public. It was a lonely part of the park so I doubt that they expected anyone. He was sitting on bench and the girl was sitting on top of him facing him. By the distance that she was elevating herself, I figured that he was somewhat long. That position worked for them because of the length of his penis. I could not do that position with someone, specially with a large booty and get away with it. As we men bend out bodies at the hips, our penis get shorter upfront. I measured myself standing up and sitting down. I lose about 1 3/4” sitting down. I go from a 4 ¾” standing up to 3” sitting. That’s measuring from the top of my tights (where my penis protrudes from between my tights), to the tip. In the position, the girl can’t hit bottom the same way as in other positions. By the time my penis reaches her opening there’s only about 1 ½ -2” left for her to ride. So I avoid some positions to try to put as much in as possible.

Some women prefer thick penises over long ones. I used to be just under 7” long by 5” circumference before my surgery (I had a surgery due to medical reasons which had some side effects, including shorting of the penis), I used to hurt some women by hitting their cervices, especially during some positions that allowed deep penetration. Now I’m 4 ¾” long with a circumference of 6”. Which is consider above average thickness. The only women that I’ve had sex after my surgery liked it even though she literally laughed at it and made some bad comments the first time she saw it. Her only complaint was that it’s too thick. So go figure!

Answer 2

Lol, I'm guessing his size is small. Well, it not all true what they say about bigger is better. I was with a guy who wasn't all that big, but he knew what to do to hit all the right spots. As long as a guy knows how to move you'll be fine. A guy can have a big thing and not know what to do with it. I say if the four play is good he might just be worth the try. What do you have to lose? If the sex isn't great you don;t have to do it again with him.

Answer 3

Okay, this is such a huge myth that the size of the penis is important...ITS NOT. The top 2/3 of a women's vagina has no nerve endings, so it doesn't matter the length of the penis because we can only feel it in the first 1/3 of the vagina. So basically, only the first few inches is what we feel. EXAMPLE...once you get a tampon inserted correctly, you cannot feel it.

Answer 4

How did you find out his penis size??
Is he that small? I know some men are bigger than some men, but will it not do you any pleasure. I guess you're an experienced woman who knows what she wants, in bed. Maybe he knows how to make up for it??

Answer 5

size matters to some of us just like ,looks, religion, how much money, everyone has diffrent things they look for in a mate, cut her some slack and think about the last time any of you said well i wouldnt date him or her because i dont like ______ you fill in the blank, personally i dont think 3and a half inches is worth messing with :D

Answer 6

hon, SIZE DOES NOT MATTER!!! I love how people really think that the bigger the penis.. the better the sex... so not true! It depends on how the guy works it. I dont think you should worry about size.. but worry if he cant work it once you sleep with him.

Answer 7

I think its sad that you dont have the same feelings for him as you did before all because he isnt up to par on his size. Dear, you just need to respect him for that, and give him a chance.

Answer 8

You are a slime. If the size of someone's penis is how you decide on a relationship, you should not be around people.

Answer 9

Do what feels right for you but do not base it on his size....thats not really going to matter because to be honest...orgasm is 90% mental and only 10% physical anyway...if you truely care for him it will work for you...

Answer 10

first of all your a "big girl " so he likes you for who you are not by your looks. So your doing him for what people have done to you. just remember how it feels. And i know people might think I'm a jerk for saying that but I say what I feel i'm a straight shooter. :|