I'm 21 and live with an emotionally, verbally, and financially abusive relative. Therapy/confrontations/all else have failed. I need to move asap before the situation becomes any more unstable and I completely snap. Problem is, I have nearly no money at the moment. I lost a lot in a fire several months ago, had to move back, and somehow fell into the trap of allowing this person to control me again. I need to move out, soon... but how?
My friends are too far away to stay with, so that's out. I could get a well-paying IT job, like I had before the fire, if I could only find an apartment to commute from to go to work, and make money, and pay rent, but I simply can't do it from my current location. Is there a service that could help me? The thought of social workers observing my household terrifies me, because of the backlash I'd get from my relative. I don't have any other relatives I could live with. If I could get a well-paying job, should I take out a loan for initial rent? Help!
2007-06-26
18:28:57
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