I have read that what destroys love are fears. I have noticed that I am always afraid of everybody even if it not visible. I am afraid of people to think smth bad of me, I am afraid not to be the way my relatieves want me and not to fulfill their dreams connected with me, I am afraid to settle down with one person forever because I am afraid he may be not the right one for me while I actually do love him now. I have noticed that I was afraid of all my boyfriends and told this to them in some moments... They were mostly always surprised to hear this as there were nothing to be afraid of... I am always afraid that I am not good enough and not deserve to be loved... And so I broke many relationships... I've read this is because I don't love myself and that these fears come only from inside of me. I wonder how can I love myself and let the fears go? Maybe somebody has any ideas? And also do you agree that nobody can love us more then we love ourselves? Thank you all! :)
Love,
Maria
2007-05-21
01:21:26
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