My g/f and I are having this debate. She says I'm always negative and cynical, but I don't see it that way. I see it as "not counting my chickens before they're hatched" and focusing on achieving small goals, but not getting my hopes up, so that if I don't acheive those goals, I'm not terribly disappointed, and also, it makes it that much MORE enjoyable when life suprises you with good things.
She on the other hand believes in motivational speakers and metaphysics, and said, "as a man thinketh...if you expect the worse, you will get bad stuff, it's what you expect & it's the Law of Atrraction...Metaphysics" and also "no matter where you go, there you are" and "bloom where you've been planted" ect...
She argues with me that I must be immune to positivity. I said "so, if you don't like me to much, why do you continue to talk to me? I think you LIKE the debate I bring to the table with you, because I open up your mind to new ideas, just as you do to me."
2006-10-21
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