Can you decide you don't love someone and just leave the thought? Or do you think if you love someone and leave them that you'll always have them in your heart?
2006-10-21 18:35:42 · 17 answers · asked by The Young Philosopher 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Your question struck me...I was in a terrible break up yesterday
with my ex-boyfriend-he was the cutest boy I've ever seen in my
entire 19year old life! I know my age is not legally having a BF.
He was my crush b4 and he totally ditched me! I'm keeping my distance from love songs, movies and anything that reminds me of LOVE. He'll be always in my heart. But I have 2 go on with my life. Why did you ask this question? Did you have some LOVE problems?
2006-10-21 18:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Corny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question is quite powerful. In fact, it is the individuals mentality on how much reality can truely affect them mentally. I can simply say that my love is with the Earth and Science, and the people and animals of the world, in the seas and the woods and the dams and even the oil rigs. Not even a woman could tear me away from my love of knowledge. If they were to keep me from it, it would make no difference what level of love I were in.
The answer is, really, that if you have given her your heart, and you had never felt indifferent or unwilling to change to the man/woman's liking, then it is up to the expansion of what you live for.
If you live for her and breath for him/her, chances are, you are not going to part from him/her easily. But if you understand you have any of the following, job, friends, hobbies, chores that you do a lot, then chances are that you would not have enough time to think about him/her as much as otherwise.
It is just like science to me. When I think science, live science and breath science, I am attatched to it... And without science I would be in utter distress, because I love it. I couldn't say that with so much passion about any woman nor friend. However love you mean.
2006-10-22 01:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust not only in your heart but try dreams, day time and night time. Often in the back of your thoughts. It is a path already set. Leave it, one should. It is essential to see and learn the route of the boomerang. Quite the adventure. Do not let it destroy you, it almost did me. Already you are ahead of this contest, by asking this of the, informed and the experienced, you get to take the smart, short cut, which saves the heart a lot of wear and tear.
God bless us all...
2006-10-22 01:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of my previous intimate relationships, I still have contact with two on a regular basis. I have left many others on good terms.
There was this one however..... it ended so badly that I honestly regret ever having the relationship. I am not angry with her, but I can honestly say that in the 10+ years since the relationship ended, I have never once wanted to revisit that relationship and she is no where in my heart. Does that mean she never was? I don't believe that to be true. I did truly love her, but I see now that feelings were a waste.
2006-10-22 01:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by soloviceus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There no such thing as love. Lust, desire, the compelling need to not go through life alone, yes.
How can someone after 20 years of sleeping, feeding, caring, sharing with someone then turn around and destroy everything and every memory that they had of them? How can you say you love someone then sleep with another? How can you say you love someone then look them in the eyes as you slowly kill them? How can you honestly say you love your sweetheart then backhand them across the room? Methinks the true meaning of love doesn't have a definition as of yet. There is too much pain, selfishness, cruelty and dammit just too much giving up for someone so say "I love you" and honestly mean it. Memories. Just memories.
2006-10-22 02:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by flashingeyed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, anyone can rebel against love, but only to experience love deeper - so it is a set path after all.
2006-10-22 01:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by lenasebay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love has alot of levels.. there are some levels of love that if a person experiences it it can never go away.. and there areother kinds of love that by the passing of time can be forgotten but for me i think that if i loved someone so hard i can never forget about it ever.. its becuase when you love someone you never hate them no matter how hard we pretend to do so.. there is always this little feeling deep within our hearts that reminds us about the love we once had..
i think that love can even pass through time barriers and we can still love the same person in the afterlife.
2006-10-22 01:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by <%little miss 3asal%> 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The human being necessarily seeks the greatest love he/she perceives. To rebel against love is to believe one has found a more perfect love and seek after that instead.
2006-10-22 01:41:09 · answer #8 · answered by immolation76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If only if you could. They say the heart wants what is wants. What I do when I have move on is in my heart I wish them a happy life without me in it. Try that. Just let your heart love and let yourself leave.
2006-10-22 01:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by Tedi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it in the opposite way. Can one rebel against hate? You technically have to pick one or the other. There really is no in-between.
2006-10-22 01:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋