I want a more serious relationship with a guy I'm seeing now.
The problem is that since the beginning of this year my sex drive has practically disappeared.
But now that I’ve met someone I really care about it’s really bothering me… and I’m sure they must ask themselves questions.
He’s always been very nice about it… but how can I ask a guy to be my boyfriend (monogamous) if I can hardly have sex with him.
We do lots of foreplay, and I enjoy being intimate with him, I am very attracted to him… but I feel no desire, I can’t get aroused… I have to ask him to stop finally because I’m not turned on enough, the sex isn’t pleasurable.
We still get together, but I’m sure he sees other girls… which I understand.
I know sex is not all that matters, but to a degree, it still does matter.
I’m just very hurt about my situation… I don’t know how to talk to him about it.
What do I say? I have no sex drive?
He’ll think I’m not interested in him..He’ll think something is wrong with me…
2007-12-29
14:35:34
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Catherine
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