question number one....ive fallen in love with some one i carnt have he says he loves me...but hes in love with someone else..hes so cute he says "we dont have to do anything if your not ready for it, you dont even have to come anywere near me...i love you so much....." he calls me stunning and beutiful and makes me feel sooo special...hes the only one i can achually talk to....hes made a huge difference in my life and i dunno what to do shall i just steal him away from the girl whos messed with his head for years dumping him and getting back and saying shes had a miscarriage and blaming it on him...i just want to be with him................????
secong question....my friend is going out with a 15 year old...and hes 18...this is illegal in the uk and i dont know if i should bring it up with him telling its wrong there having sex and everything....(hes suffering from depression).......i think its sooo wrong but i dont want to hurt his feeling as hes feel very sad as it is........thx
2007-12-29 14:34:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
sorry hehe *answer*
2007-12-29 14:36:12 · update #1
When men use say stuff like, "you are so special" and they have other women, they are just playing you for sex. If he calls you baby or sugar or other nicknames, it is because he doesnt want to get your name mixed up with the others.
As for the second question i dont live in the uk, but in the US, this would be illegal and highly frowned upon, do the girlfriends parents know? If not I'd drop a small hint at their door letting them know who she is dating, they'll take it from their.
2007-12-29 14:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by khutchpw 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't do anything with the guy until he figures out what he wants to do with this girl he is with now. Let him work that out before you make a move. Secondly...I have done it before with a friend who was 16 and dating a 26 yr old..I went to the parents and told them. I am sorry but even 18 and 15 is bad. I was looking out for my friend at the time. She didn't think so and stopped being my friend but I know I did the right thing.
2007-12-29 22:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. If the boy you've fallen for loves you and someone else tell him to make up his mind or you'll forget him.
2. If its illegal tell the cops because sex at that young of an age is totally unacceptable. And if she doesn't want the baby chances are she will do the stupidest thing ever....leave it in the dumpster.
2007-12-29 22:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1) if the guy says he "loves you" but also loves someone else, you need to move on. he's not worth your time. all he is is trouble and that should be a huge red flag. by all means you can be friends, but don't take it any farther and try to avoid saying "I love you"
2) I don't live in the UK. sorry !
2007-12-29 22:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by Gummy. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. If he loves you, he would be dating you and not the other girl.
2. It is illegal but nobody will know if you don't say anything.
2007-12-29 23:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Erica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. I agree with Gummy, if he "loves" someone else, then he's not worth your time hun! Your probably to good for him anyway!
2. Also, sorry I don't live in the UK so I can't answer that! :)
2007-12-29 22:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by bitchez n hoez 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
#1 talk to him about it. tell him u cant wait forever. i mean if hes w/ someone else and isnt going to break up with her.... then theres no point in you sticking around. if he breaks up w/ her, then goodluck to u guys, but if he doesnt its time to find a new man.
#2 bring it up slowly and dont act like it rly bothers u at first soo they'll be more willing to talk about it, but get your point across... its not that bad since they're only 3 years apart, but if it rly bothers u... make ur point and leave it as that. if u ask and bug... you could end up making ppl mad.
2007-12-29 22:40:58 · answer #7 · answered by mariah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. It doesn't sound like he's being taken advantage of by the other girl. It sounds like you're being taken advantage of by him. Forget him. He's just playing games with you. If he loved you he'd leave the other girl.
2007-12-29 22:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by hillbillylana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
anyone having sex who is over 18 years with someone who is under 17 years, that is called RAPE by law and what about respecting yourself and your body?????
Having sex at your age is totally STUPID
2007-12-29 22:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by No More Abuse 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋