I'm engaged to be married and suddenly I'm having mixed feelings about everything. I feel that I'm sacrificing too much for my fiance and he's not willing to sacrifice or compromise as much for me. I'm beginning to learn that he's very closed minded, me however, I'm the opposite. One example is me always wanting to adopt at least 1 of my kids and give birth to the other. He is not supportive of the idea because "he's never done it before and doesn't want to ever do it." I asked him that even if it was one of his wife's desires to adopt 1 child would he go through with it...he said, "You can't have all of your desires, that's just the way life is." Now I'm at a crossroad. The things I truly love are things he seems to not be willing to compromise with. Is it worth it to sacrifice so much when the person you're with is not sacrificing hardly anything at all?
I would really appreciate sincere and thoughtful answers. Thank you. :)
2007-12-14
06:17:40
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Chanel
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Marriage & Divorce