I feel ashamed. I am a married man with two adorable daughters under the age of 5. Things have never been right with my wife, but we kept our relationship going because of our daughters. Well, that's why I am still in the relationship.
I made the huge mistake of cheating on her, and falling for another woman. I have known her for over 8 months now. And she recently found out that she was pregnant. I feel lost, ashamed and scared. She is worried but completely against abortion, and I am too, in a way, but I feel like this is a critical situation.
If she keeps this child, I will have to leave my family and my daughters will never respect me. I love them, they are the love of my life, and i can't imagine them not being in my life or hating me.
Should she have an abortion? Should she keep the child? What can i say to convince her not to have this child? I feel like this child would be born in a bad situation, but she seems to think it does not matter. What is the best option? Help.
2007-12-13
09:10:04
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Marriage & Divorce