I tend to put my cell on silent because I'm either in class/studying/work. My boyfriend gets angry because I don't pick up and this happens often. Today, we had a major argument because of this phone issue. He always accuses me of being 'bad' and that he does everything 'good' for me (i.e.quiet smoking, went back to school, etc.) He emphasizes a lot on his feelings and how he is the one feeling sad-I make him sad. But the fact that he always blames it on me, that I'm a 'bad girl', makes me cry. I told him this but he denies ever making me sad. I know I'm not perfect and I know I'm impatient and inconsiderate sometimes but I always apologize and want the best for him.
What is a good way to deal with this?
When we have an argument, I tend to cry because I'm tired of being called the 'bad' person in the relationship or the 'bad girl'.
What should I do?
2007-12-11
15:40:03
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