My wife and I have been together for 8 years but only been married for 1 yr. We have been separated for the last 3 months. We had arguments but it was like other married couples. No cheating or physical abuse. Anyhow 3months ago we got into a heated argument and then took off and stayed at her sister's house. A week after that, she told me that she wants a divorce b/c she is "fed-up". I requested that we go to MC and she refused. Fast-forward 3 months and she noticed that I am going to therapy on my own. Now she wants to go to MC with me but the catch is she's only going to go to help me and that she still wants a divorce. I told her that if it's just for me and not for US, then don't worry about going. She said that she still cares about me and still wants to go. I am a little confused to why she wants to go to MC with me if she is stuck on divorcing me. Also, why all the sudden the change of heart? Is she having doubts about the divorce and her pride is getting in the way?
2007-12-11
01:14:37
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Marriage & Divorce