I'm starting to get worried about myself. I'm 24 and I've never I had a serious relationships with a man. I've only had relationship where I end up having sex (too soon?) with a guy I've fallen head over heels in love with but that doesn't want to commit... with me.
My last relationship was beyond hard. When he left me for a girl he had been seeing for as long as he had known me (one year) but NEVER TOLD ME ABOUT IT, it put me in the deepest and darkest depression I've ever been through.
I've made some progress though because I now accept that we will never be together, fact with which I was in denial for many many months.
The thing I'm worried about is will I be played like this all my life ? My last 4 relationship (first one starting when I was 19) have all had the same pattern.
I feel like I've learned many things, but I've become so fragile and vulnerable, I can't even imagine ever falling in love like that again, I loved him way too much.
In need of some wisdom.
2007-12-06
15:11:35
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Marriage & Divorce