Hi, I recently started dating a guy, and we began to be sexually active about a week ago. He is a virgin and very old to be one (he's 27, I'm 22), but he said he is ready with me.
Anyway, my problem is I cannot get him to climax. I tried hand jobs, BJ's, and sex with a condom, and it works for awhile but he ultimatly just ends up going soft. I'm on the pill so we tried sex without a condom, which makes me a little nervous (fear of pregnancy even though I'm on the pill, I prefer 2 methods of B/C) but he still wasn't able to get off. I'm not sure why. He says he's just nervous and is just getting used to having sex since he's a virgin. Anyone have any insight as to what might be going on, anyone ever have a similar experience?
ps, only serious answers please. Yes, I'm positive he's not gay, yes he really was a virgin before he met me, etc, etc. I'm coming on here and asking because I'm too embarrased to ask elsewhere.
Thank you all for your help. :-)
2007-12-03
04:34:54
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