i am 21 and i married 2 years ago, i made it a point to remain a virgin until i was married, it wasnt easy sometimes but i was able to control myself from doing mistakes with men who i knew would never end up being the one for me , but were just a boyfriend or friend. but i have noticed especially in my relatives noone really cares anymore. i was the only one who waited until marriage amoung my 10 cousins. none of them waited , all had kids before marriage too. i listened to their stories and one of my cousins is married and still sleeps around alot like it is nothing. i just dont understand what she gets out of it. because she doesnt know anything about most of them . i understand if you are in love like fiance and planning marriage , but just random dudes i dont get it. please if anyone is still a virgin what are your reasons for staying that way? and if not why did you choose to have sex before marriage? how many have you been with? are there any that you really didnt know ?
2007-11-25
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