Following a 9-year marriage that was very fulfilling sexually, as well as most other ways, our finished basement was flooded. It took me almost a year to put everything right. Huge job. I mostly worked alone. During this time, my wife and I argued a lot about me not being able to finish the basement sooner. This was due to my job responsibilities and kid's activities. During this year, she became more and more angry, saying things like I'm not a man, etc. It has been nearly two years since I completed the restoration of the basement. However, our sex life has not improved. We have brief sex maybe once every two months or so. She knows ow much this bothers me, but I do not push her at all. I keep thinking things will get better if I'm patient. However, I feel hurt and betrayed. I feel like my wife has broken her vows. I grow increasingly frustrated and down right angry. I work hard not to express those feelings. I know doing so will only cause an argument. Any suggestions? Divorce?
2007-11-25
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Twister
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Marriage & Divorce