My boyfriend and I have been planning to go to colleges for sometime now, and so far he wants to go to this college and I want to go to that. He thinks that if we go to different colleges in different areas, things will be the same between us. But to me its like going to a different highschool. I can't maintain long distance relationships, its too hard. I'm so afraid that if he goes to another college he will find someone else thats always there to be with. And that thought hurts me so much. I've been going out with him for a full year now and I hate the thought of losing him. He says that we could just get an apartment together but I don't see how thats possible if we are going to be in different areas..
What do I do? Should I break up with him ahead of time to prevent any worse loss? I just feel like when we are away from each other and around different people, we may grow apart and I don't want that to happen. Please help me.
2007-11-25
09:37:42
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