A friend of mine is getting married in 2 weeks. I hosted her bridal shower this past weekend. She had 35 guests in attendance excluding the rest of the bridal party (5 girls plus myself)….Anyway, she contacted me today and asked when I would be sending out the thank you cards to the guests….It has always been my impression that that is up to the bride, not the hostess. I told my friend that I would not be sending out T/Y cards, that it was up to her. She became extremely mad, yelling that she’s not the one that invited everyone (yet she gave me the list of people to be invited) She said that if I’m not going to do my part as MOH, then I’m out…Is it the hostess reasonability to send out T/Y cards? All other showers I’ve ever hosted or been to the “honorary guest” is the one that does the Thank You’s. I fear that she will boot me out of the wedding party at the last minute. What should I do?
2007-11-20
07:56:48
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