I have been married for 8 years and have 2 kids. My husband is a functional, binge drinking, alcoholic. For 3 years I have told him I have not been happy with the marriage and we need to seek counseling. I did so on my own for three years. I feel like my husband has been a teenage son rather that a spouse and I am burnt out. I think he may be bipolar also. Mood swings and depression. He currently is not drinking, (that I know of) and says he will not drink anymore. I finally decided after the past 3 years that I do want to separate and NOW he wants to go to counseling. He says he knows he has issues but he says I do too. After 3 years I have come to terms that this marriage is over and I am ready to move on. He is ready to try, I think a bit too late. He is saying that some of the way he is is because of me. Now I am feeling wishy-washy and 2nd guessing my decision! Thoughts anyone...
2007-11-10
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