My new boyfriend and I have had sex twice, but I could never really enjoy myself because I wasn't aroused enough.
This guy is fantastic at pleasing a woman by the way.
The problem is that I get anxiety that I won't get wet, or won't feel horny... and even after a lot of foreplay, the anxiety itself kills my arousal.
I'm sure this makes sex less enjoyable for him too...
How can I stop this?
I try to 'relax' and 'not think about it'... but I can't!
Help me please, I'm 18.
2007-10-26
07:05:48
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Cat K
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Psychology