My ex and i got married with i was 23. He was military, we got married and didnt tell anyone. I'd been with him for 2 and a half years. We figrued we'd get married, i could live with him, he'd get more money, i'd get benefits, we'd tell people we were engaged, then have a wedding later. DUMB! It lasted a year, then he called me on the phone from another state and told me he didnt want to be with me anymore. My world shattered. I didnt have a plan B. i thought he was it and i never thought i'd be living life without him. It has been hard for me to find the good in any of this. It's good, because he obviously didnt love me, now i'm free from that...but my relationships have suffered greatly in the past 4 years. Ive anesthesized myself with alcohol, I've been promiscuous, the men i like are losers. I have a good job and i'm in grad school, but my relationships have been awful, i've lost friends. I have gone to therapy, what should i do? I'm 29 now....
2007-10-23
04:13:31
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Marriage & Divorce