I have a good friend of 5 years who I have an enormous crush on. He is very intelligent, funny and cool. We can talk for hours about sports, music, politics, other friends, etc. The only thing is that he doesn't discuss his feelings about anything serious, ever. He seems to have one mood: happy.
The few times I have tried to open up to talk about my personal issues, he usually changes the subject or has to go. Only on two or three occasions has he said something revealing about himself or about how he feels about me (one time in an instant message he said, "thanks for being here for me.") He is a great guy to help with favors, projects, hanging out, but not for emotional support.
With my other friends, especially after so many years, there is a certain level of openness where I feel comfortable speaking about private issues. There isn't that with him.
I love him as much as it is possible to love someone who won't let you in.... how do I find out what else there is to him?
2007-10-22
22:43:56
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