I've been married for 4 years. We have 2 young kids and he has a 7 year old from his first marriage. We were married after only two months of dating, but we knew each other all through grade and high school. He had me so in love with him, I was sure he was it. Turns out, a lot of what he told me were things he knew I wanted to hear. The first 3 years were hell for me. We fought all the time. He has changed a lot the last year, but I can't seem to forget all the hurt he's caused me. Plus, a lot of people question his sexuality. Including his ex wife. Now all I think about is a life with someone who has the same likes, wants, and desires. He has no friends, no hobbies, no desire to vacation. All he wants to do is work and take care of kids. He's great around the house, but I know in my heart we don't belong together. We don't make each other happy, and I work 7 days a week so I don't have to be around him or his daughter any more than I have to be. Do I stay for the kids?
2007-10-10
16:07:33
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