Ok... here is the thing, I am 20 years old, and my mother, whom I have a close relationship with, announced that she is divorcing my dad, who has fallen into mental illness (he is really unbearable to be with now) - he is a college professor, now he is completely insane. My mom can't bear it anymore because his condition is not changing... However, she had not told my Dad yet, and she told me not to tell him either... She already got an apartment of her own and plans on leaving in a month.
I am really feeling sorry for my dad, it breaks my heart to see the poor man lose everything like this... even though I understand why my mother is leaving - she can't live her life taking care of a crazy person...
Should I go ahead and give my dad a heads up in hopes that he may change? I was thinking about telling him, "heads up you are about to lose your wife, unless you don't do anything about it?" But I'm not sure how he will react... I don't want to betray my mom, he may explode...
2007-10-03
09:29:20
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