we've been together for over a yr. he has had MANY financial and legal troubles that i have bailed him out on because i have always been level-headed, successful & saved all my money rather than throwing it away on partying. he has done a complete 180 and we are truly in love.
we have officially discussed marriage and plan to get married next yr. we rarely fight unless it's major issues like his financial messes that i clean up (i am out nearly 10k). i have no major financial or mental problems that cause us problems.
BUT when iiii have some small issue or want to openly communicate a problem before it becomes a prob. he always gets defensive & it turns into an argument. for the past yr, if we ever fight because of me, it's because he never hears me out. he always calls my probs. small and not worth discussion (because he has had SUCH BIG PRobs in his life).
yes he doesn't drink, do drugs, cheat, has a good heart, would be a wonderful husband & father except if this is going
2007-09-28
09:39:57
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