pretended to be out said we are having guests and he still comes round. If we're not in at 6.30 he comes at 8pm. I tried to get him to break this habit, by going to his house at 5 pm but he still turns up at 6.30. My mum passed away 2 yr ago, so I try to understand his lonliness and visit him 3 -4 times a week, often staying a few hours to keep him company.
I have told him to go to night school, fishing or any other hobby he would enjoy, or even get a new partner but he refuses, saying he likes to visit me & my hubby at night.
The thing is he tries to cause trouble by pulling me apart to my hubby and my hubby apart to me. We took him on holiday with us earlier this year and he made us go to the room after the evening meal so the three of us could have a drink before bed on the balcony so our bedtime was 9pm We couldn't sneak out after that because he made us get up at 6.30 am for brekkie. I'm 47 and still scared to disobey or hurt him. What can I do. My dad is very fit and very sane
2007-09-19
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