About 4 months ago, I cheated on my finance by sending messages through the internet, I never physically cheated but I'm still completely at fault. Now, I understand most people don't change, once a cheat always a cheat. But in order for a person to change they must change for themselves, not out of consequence. I've changed, for myself and in doing so, ultimately for us and our relationship. I'm torn, she relives the event almost every day, sometimes shes happier than she's ever been and other times she's depressed thinking about this.
I feel as If I let her go, she'll be happy now and maybe she'll find someone who wouldn't do this to her. But on the other side, I love her very much and 100% know I would never hurt her again. I feel as if I can make it work until I finally prove it to her I can make her the happiest girl in the world. If I didn't believe it so strong heartedly then I wouldn't still be trying to make it work.... Advice please. Thanks
2007-09-09
02:23:52
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Jambiena
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Marriage & Divorce