My bf of 3 months & his ex called it off over a yr ago & are still friends. She calls him weekly & they were still spending time together but unattached. Also he claims she is the only person he has loved. All of this made me uneasy, but then he went out of his way to introduce us to one another & told her all about us.
I guess I thought her knowing about us would mean she'd recognise us as a couple. Maybe she'd lay off some. But she continually calls him all hours, asks to dance with him when their at the same club & recently she sent him a msg saying she'd dreamt about the two of them being intimate (WTF!).
Can someone please clarify if this is going beyond the boundaries of friendship? Clearly she holds a torch for him, but I cant help that feel what she is doing is disrespectful to myself. She & I attend the same college, so I am constantly seeing her about & it grates coz I know I wouldn't do this to my ex-bf.
Should I do anything? or see if it passes? All thoughts appreciated.
2007-09-09
21:10:36
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