This is weird stuff. I am a fairly independent person. I try to make my own rules and I don't like following a crowd, or the opinions of any particular person. Recently though, I have been hanging out with a group of people that, the more I get to know them, the more pathetic they seem. It started when I became friends with this guy I work with. He invited me out for drinks or whatever, and I just moved to the city so I was game to meet some new people. After hanging out with these people for a while, it dawned on me that my friend from work is the group "leader". This is frustrating, because when he makes plans, and gets everyone worked up to do what he has planned, sometimes he'll cancel the plans at the last minute. Then, everyone backs out, and comes up with some excuse as to why they don't want to go out anymore. Are people really this spineless? I'm saying to them, "just because HE'S not going out, it doesn't mean you shouldn't". They don't listen. Any advice?
2007-09-02
10:10:46
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