I guess I just need a pep talk.
I've been married for almost 17 years. I have four children with my wife, from 16 yrs to 10 yrs. My wife has a 4yr old.
Yes, that's right, several years ago she came home from the bar pregnant. Now, I don't know the bio-father and I don't care. The child is my son and I raise him and treat him as such. I told myself I would be here for my kids until they are adults no matter what.
But, lately, it is very very difficult. I don't want to be intimate with my wife. She is angry all the time. I would rather not spend time with her. I don't like being at home at all. I drive home from work regretting the eventual turn into the driveway.
I guess the infidelity has burned a hatred into me that I can't escape. I still enjoy every minute with my kids and I don't want them to have to grow up in a divided home, but I'm not sure I can hold out until they are of age.
Words of advice?
2007-08-20
01:31:53
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Mike
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Marriage & Divorce