I'm dating this fantastic guy, who also happens to be divorced. Just for the record, he is older than me, as he is 31 and I'm 24. He was married a little over two years and was with his ex for about 7. Now, I also just came out of a long term relationship also- 6 years. His ex-wife is 25, and wants her and I to be 'good friends'. She also said that she wanted my boyfriend and I to 'be another couple Emmanuel and I hang out with'. Emmanuel is her boyfriend, by the way. Those two have only been officially divorced since July, though they called it off back in November. How odd is it that she expects me to be friends with her? I don't want to be her friend, to be honest. I'm trying so hard to get my boyfriend to empathize with me and understand why I don't particuarly want her around that often, let alone be friends. I'm not insecure in our relationship in the least, or that they'll somehow get back together, but I don't want her in my face all the time trying to be my friend.
2007-08-17
18:58:03
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Marriage & Divorce