Ive been a stay at hope wife for several months. I do all the cooking cleaning and laundry and care for our puppy. I don't have a problem with that at all. The problem is, every single day when he arrives home from his job, he throw his shoes one way, his pants the other, he leave lights on, The pitcher out on the counter, basically what im getting at, is the man is a walking mess and destroys my hard work i do each day. I tried hinting to him that if he could just put his shoes away and hand me the clothes he doesnt want. Because i work hard to make the house lovely. I explained that it would be like me going out and shopping with no regard with his hard earned money. Its rude, and him just messing up my work is like the same to me. I need another approach to him, b.c he says " i don't care if it looks good, if it bothers you, clean up after me" But if he ever came home to a messy house he would complain. Thanks for any help!
2007-08-14
07:21:54
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Sunshine
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Marriage & Divorce