We have been together like forever but I found out my fiance likes guys and for the past year he won't have sex with me, could he be gay?He wants to get married but I think he could just be hiding behind me fearing to come out of the closet. We have two kids together what should I do?
2007-08-14 07:19:44 · 30 answers · asked by Michele N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if he likes guys and won't have sex with you he sounds gay to me. Why would you want to be with someone uninterested in you? I would probably talk to him about it. He is probably embarassed that he likes guys.
2007-08-14 07:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by salmalucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes gay.
Whether or not you have kids together, why in Gods name would you want to marry someone that wont have sex with you??
I really cant give relationship advice because I dont know either of you, but just from that one paragraph question it sounds as if you are aspiring to be miserable for the rest of your life...good luck
2007-08-14 14:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by WhatsYourProblem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is just to come out and ask him. It will be hard for the both of you, but the truth has to come out. I've known a lot of guys who get married and have kids, but finally come out after all of that and it ends in a messy divorce. If you get him to admit it now, you will be happy you did.
2007-08-14 14:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by Kerrigan Z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
UMM HES DEFINATLY GAY!!
dont marry him
if will probably end up as a divorce
it would be better for you and your children to move on and get a new life.
maybe u shouldnt have had kids w/ him so they wouldnt have to suffer through the divorce
did u ever think about tht?!?!
2007-08-14 14:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by calicutie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god! You are in a real pickle. If he is not having sex with you and you still want to marry him? Why? What are you getting out of this? You need to look out for you. Why do you think he likes guys? You need to sit him down and talk to him and find out what is going on... Communication is key
2007-08-14 14:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by spagirl23188 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE likes GUYS.
That's the definition of gay for a man. You answered your own question. Perhaps he's Bi, but if he's not having sex with you... he's probably not. I'd say it's a ruse to get you to break up with him or something, but since he wants to marry you, I'd say it's not. He's gay.
2007-08-14 14:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Larryboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the best future of your child you should marry him. but even after marraige he may not be attracted to you. but i think if he is taking interest in guys , some thing is lacking from your side. you can try to involve him in you. give him sexy looks every time. initiate sex by warming him up . for more on how to warm a guy you can email me.
2007-08-14 14:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by PHD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thinking like he is gay don't marry him and let him be a closet gay you deserve better then that and if he won't have sex with you why would you want to.........
2007-08-14 16:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by JerseyBtch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be questioning his sexual preference as much as not wanting to be intimate with you. I would suggest confronting him on the issue and letting him know that the future of the relationship hangs in the balance.
Good luck.
2007-08-14 14:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm he is gay dont marry him and tell him to just come out of the closet
2007-08-14 14:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by ☆STAR☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋