Does anyone in this situation feel that after the dust has settled, and IF they have decided to give the partner a second chance, that there is some strange "secondary gain" to be had here? What I mean is, when there is an ultimatum involved, (i.e., you do anything like this again and I'm outta here...) it is almost like holding something over the partner's head, especially if they are regretful? It doesn't seem right, but just seems like it is the way things are. Do things ever become normal, or almost normal again? It seems like between the mistrust, and the changed dynamic, someone is bound to be driven away?
2007-08-02
05:30:58
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Saia
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Marriage & Divorce