Her mother and I have been friends since high school and I was her maid of honor. But I don't particularly believe in all these archaic, mostly materialistic and self serving "honors" that have become routine. I am not religious in the least, and I don't need to church to tell me to care for a child that needs it. I'm honestly tired of all the expenses these ocasions bring up that I can't really afford. And I'm tired of going all out for everyone else, while noone ever reciprocates or appreciates. I would rather not do it, but at the same time I don't want to hurt her feelings. I'm just tired of participating in all these rituals that are nothing more than gift gathering expeditions, and in which I don't really believe.
2007-07-22
09:21:18
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