I've been in a long term relationship for 2 years. He's a great guy, he's kind, affectionate and always puts me first. He's talked about us getting married, I feel as though I have my family and his families expectation that we will. The idea of marrying him however does not fill me with excitement, all I feel is indifferent to the idea. I can't even figure out what depth of feeling I have for him, I love him but I can't figure out how if I love him as a lover or as a brother. We rarely have sex because I just can't face it at times and when we do, it's over in less than a minute. I thought long term love involved feeling mentally connected and passionate - I've had that in previous relationships. However like I said nobody has treated me as well as what he has and I feel like a fool for even having these doubts, I have no one to talk to as everyone is so quick to tell me how great he is they don't want to hear about my own fears.
I feel alone.
2007-07-14
11:17:28
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Marriage & Divorce