I suspected my wife was cheating, but when I tried to talk to her about it she denied it. Reluctantly, I checked her cell phone text messages while she was asleep and discovered she slept with a man last Monday night while I was at work. Then last Friday night she went out with a diff. man and spent the night at his house. They haven't slept together yet, but she plans to go out with him this Friday. Both men are old enough to be her dad. I know the quick response would be "dump her", but I am partly to blame. We have a good sex life, but I have been so absorbed in my job as a community college teacher that I haven't shown her the time or affection she needs. I love her very, very much and don't want to lose her, though she told me Monday that we are finished. What should I do to save our marriage?
2007-07-11
00:22:09
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