Older sister helped me out with lending me money 2 years ago, with the terms of I will pay you when I have it. We just recently got into the older sister / younger brother power struggle, when I put my foot down, and told her she is responsible for herself, and I am responsible for myself (Boundaries). Obviously when you put up a boundary to someone who is aggressive controlling, she felt the only card she could play was to demand payment of the money she loaned me. So my question is, what is the correct response back to her when she is emailing me "When am I getting my money??????", when I feel like she is doing this more to make herself feel better, that I lent you money, you owe me now buddy.
2007-07-10
02:12:57
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