I am trying to pick a date to get married. Ever since I was little I have always wanted to get married the first Saturday in October. I think it is the most beautiful time of the year. So my problem is that the first Saturday of October this year is the 6th. My mom passed away on that same date in 2005. and I don't think my mom would care, she would want me to remember that date as a happy one and not a sad one. Here's the problem, my fiance' doesn't have a problem with that date, he said it was totally up to me, whatever I thought was right. One of my three brothers, who would be given me away was very mad about me choosing this date, even though he didn't even care for our mother while she was sick. Should I sick to my guns and keep the date or give in and not cause any problems with my family. I really want all of my family there, and I don't know if he would get over this. Please help!!!
2007-07-10
02:48:48
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