Here's the deal,
I recently started going out with this guyand I really like him. He's gets really shy around me and it makes me think..."does he like me as much as i like him"....so what should i do???? What if you're afraid to do soemthing that you've never tried before but not sure how to do it (cough cough... k!$$...cough cough)
SERIOUS answers only!
2007-07-10 02:47:58 · 14 answers · asked by Steph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make some hints that it's okay for him to be shy, but try to encourage him not to be shy if you want the relationship to go further. In my opinion try to go or go do something that he likes to "open" him up to you. About the kissing, it's not about giving a perfect kiss(but that's kinda optional) or anything that would make him want more, but giving him an impression that your ready for the next level.
2007-07-10 02:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lorenz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some initiative and go for it. From personal experience of having to do all the work, guys love it when a girl steps up and makes the first move.
2007-07-10 02:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by tokarcjm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For awhile, just see him and RELAX. Talk to him about things he is interested in. Do some low keyed stuff, a movie, art museum, etc. Admittedly, sometimes the girl has to nudge things along. Just don't jump on him without warning. You sound sensitive enough to know what to do. Good luck!
2007-07-10 02:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him warm up to you. Ya know what I do when I really like a guy and I'm nervous or I think hes just got luke warm feelings and mine are boiling, I pretend that I'm way to good for him.Which some of them i was but just pretend that hes looking at you like your a goddess! I've always gotin every guy Ive ever wanted like tkat.
2007-07-10 02:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by Heather G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like this issue is on your mind all the time...don't do it! get it off your mind, don't think about it too much, just have a good time with the guy....the more pressure you put on your self and to the guy, less enjoyable your time together be. trust me, after settling down he'll make the move....i'm sure he is thinking about it too. so go with the flow, patience will pay off!
2007-07-10 02:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait untill you are 12 before you kiss him..thats like 2 years from now
2007-07-10 02:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it too much. When its the right time everything will just fall into place. Trust me I went threw the same thing!!! Don't come one too strong I'm sure when he's ready he'll pucker up. lol
2007-07-10 02:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by MrsValo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him make the first move ( cough) if he's shy be patient.
2007-07-10 02:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some time, he is probably really shy and doesn't want to make a fool of himself around you..just let him know that you don't care if he does and that you'll still like him and then just make a move..it will come to you!
2007-07-10 02:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by southernsweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you will never know unless you try. A big part of life is taking risks and this may be one of those risks worth taking.
2007-07-10 02:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by Farrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋