I know that you can help whether or not you ACT on attraction, but do you determine who you are attracted to? Is it entirely chemical? I am HAPPILY married, but attracted to one of my husband's friends. I would never cheat on my husband, I love him very much, but the attraction is still there nonetheless. It is almost palpable when we are around each other. His friend and I have never talked about it, but I think we both know its there and would NEVER even think about having an affair. I'm just asking if its my fault that I am attracted to him or is it entirely out of my hands? Also I would like advice on fighting that attraction, because he will always be around because of his friendship with my husband, but I never want to flirt with him or act inappropriately around him due to my attraction to him. I love my husband. This is not a matter of whether or not to have an affair, that is out of the question. Is attraction an intentional choice or a chemical reaction?
2007-07-05
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Mississippi girl
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