My husband treats my daughter like a girlfriend, gives her money- like $100 if she wants, takes her shopping, lets her get away with lying and staying out late.
He spends little time with me. My husband yells at me and throws fits if I insist on some structure. It wastes a lot of my time and energy.
I remove priviledges if she lies or doesn't stick to the plan- where she's going, when she'll be home.
Then Dad says it's OK. Teen hates me. I love her, I drive her to her social things, school, have sleepovers, bringing her cold drinks, hanging out around the house.
I know she has to be her own be her own self, but I can't get my own work done because of the chaos.
Any tips? Leave them to work it out without me?
2007-06-24
18:58:03
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Eve
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