what exactly is it like to have (trying to think how to say this without this question being deleted and without it sounding corny lol).. you know yr "thing"or "thingy" (corny i know )... and constantly being on (or horny).. becuz me and a male friend of mine were talking and he was telling me that even though he was married he always has a hard time being around me.. i told him unlike most girls i understand what its PROBABLY like for you guys becuz we dont have this "thing" that acts like it does everytime we get around someone we're attracted to.. and he went further and said that it was almost like you have no control at all over it and it was the need to procreate.. like all male animals have..he said it almost "itches" and when you try and fight it it doesnt work..he said even if the girls not that attractive it will go "hot" and "cold" but with me it always stays "hot"..is it really that serious? what is it like to literally be controlled by it?
2007-06-24 18:57:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
this is why i always thought it was harder for guys NOT to cheat.. its like a constant reminder or alram that goes off
2007-06-24 18:58:45 · update #1
lol yr probably right muffinman becuz that much was definitely obvious.. i do see some agreeing though.. all good to know lol
2007-06-24 19:11:43 · update #2
lol yr probably right muffinman becuz that much was definitely obvious.. i do see some agreeing though.. all good to know ha
2007-06-24 19:12:03 · update #3
you people are SO MUCH better at answering this than the singles and dating crew (section) probably more guys over here.. luving the feedback :)
2007-06-24 19:14:36 · update #4
im not the naive type a234 but he WAS totally sincere about it.. and didnt even really go into it until i said what i said about "understanding whats its probably like"..plus this was after like 2 hours of talking about some REALLY deep personal NON SEXUAL stuff.. so im thinking there was a trust thing going on at the time.. cuz trust me he knew he wasnt getting any
2007-06-24 19:19:32 · update #5
im not the naive type a234 but he WAS totally sincere about it.. and didnt even really go into it until i said what i said about "understanding whats its probably like"..plus this was after like 2 hours of talking about some REALLY deep personal NON SEXUAL stuff.. so im thinking there was a trust thing going on at the time.. cuz trust me he knew he wasnt getting any.. and YOU either lol whtever it is you just begged for
2007-06-24 19:20:10 · update #6
OOPS sorry about the repeats my computer is on some serious lagging tonight
2007-06-24 19:21:26 · update #7
you are so on point azzuri.. that makes alot of sense and the most sense.. hey hon ;)
2007-06-24 19:26:47 · update #8
I wouldn't say that the scenario is entirely true. WITHOUT A DOUBT there are certain women that men find attractive and attractive in a sexual way. I think men will casually say "Ohh she's hot" or "Ya! I'd do her" but don't really have the intense emotion behind it. Then there are other times and with certain individuals where it does almost feel on the verge of uncontrollable. That's the human, primal instinct taking over. I do think those are few and far between and are talked about far more than actually happen.
2007-06-24 19:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by ** Azzurri ** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's why some women say that that is where our brain is located. Always thinking with it.....
lol lol lol
It doesn't control me anymore... Then I was impulsive and reckless now I have a system of checks and balances that I do to ensure a nonembarrassing moment when around a hottie. Man I just wish my left arm was as big as my right though!!! lol lol lol
Kidding of course!
2007-06-25 02:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by ♣ Samzass ♣ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's great fun and lead to a lot of learning, if one is considerate of others and takes care. It can also be a pest and make one's life a bit of a wreck. That can teach one to control the instinctive urge, and concentrate on other aspects of relationships. But one grows out of it, sadly! By which time, with luck, one has found a companion to enjoy all of life with.
2007-06-25 02:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
the guy was definitely trying to sleep with you. and no, it's not this uncontrollable desire... the only way that it is is if you walk around 24/7 thinking with your other head. and some guys do that especially when they're younger. they have that 'i have a "thingy" and i'm going to conquer the entire female population' mentality and some do and get to be known as the jerks and some don't and get to be known as the nice guys...
never let a guy tell you that it is uncontrollable... that's a bunch of crap. crizznap, foo. word to your mother.
2007-06-25 02:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by James 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you said it for guys, but I once asked my guy about it.
See I don't believe in marriage for myself, but I did go through this stage where I was afriad I was going to lose him because not wanting to get married. Even though he wants marriage, just as a symbol for committment - that he has learned to control the urges of his littlier man, they are still there but that doesn't mean he was to follow through.
Unless it's with me because I'm so wanton. I don't even mind if he gets that excited about something, or one than me. As long as I get the end result I'm happy.
2007-06-25 02:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by MysticalMinds 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Either your friend is 12 years old or he was feeding you a line. It's no harder for guys to control themselves than it is for women. And it's not in our thoughts 24/7. Any guy who says different is pathetic and is just looking for sympathy sex.
2007-06-25 02:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by muffinman 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's not constantly on but it does have it's ups and downs.Some girls turn guy's on more than others,it has nothing to do with being attractive ..chemistry i think.
2007-06-25 02:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by less 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
small brain no control yes for me I can get excited by most attractive women but my mind can think of other thoughts. it does not get hard in a stiff breeze
2007-06-25 02:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
start taking cold shower everyday. and wear ice packed underwears. that should solve everything tht get hot and wont set off alarms.
2007-06-25 02:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ray of sunshine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably is just some primeval urge acting up again.
2007-06-25 02:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋