my husand and I have been married for 7 years and at first sex was great. Now after career and kids, the romance and emotional connection is not there. He said a 3 some would bring it back for him. But he is not satisfying me at all sexually (never have and orgasm). I feel like I am with a high school kid that's all intercourse, no foreplay, never role played (he said that was stupid), just same ole routine sex....BORING! How can I tell him what I need to pleasure me. I was readin up on tantric sex and that sound interesting. I feel like, correct me if I am wrong, I am on a more mental and spiritual/emotional level of sexual pleasure and he is still on new women, or variety, the physical level (childish). What should I do. At times I do think of wanting to be with another man. I even thought of allowing him to have his 3 some (with 2 other women) in return have sex with another man & have him to watch & learn LOL....I don't know, please help.
2007-06-19
04:45:08
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sassy lady
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Marriage & Divorce