When we first got married my husband did not want a joint bank account but finally agreed to it. Almost three years have passed and he still unhappy with the situation. I bring home a little more than he does, but we still cannot afford to just split everything down the middle. We just purchased a new home and will be very limited to the money that we have left each pay period. We get into arguments about money all the time because he wants to spend money eating out, drinking and having a good time with this friends. Don't get me wrong, we all work hard and there's nothing wrong with that. But I will tell him a bill is due and he will actually get upset because he feels like all we do is pay bills. Well what are you supposed to be doing? When he hangs out with his friends he doesn't check the account. He just assumes that he ought to be able to go have a good time since he has worked hard. But bills come first, right? To be continued ...
2007-06-11
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